About me


” Some of the oldest human needs are having someone to wonder where you are when you don’t come home at night,
someone to miss and miss you too… a connection with someone that’s like a best friend – Someone there that when you look back
at your life they say… I remember when, and you are the best thing in my life “

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Thank you for viewing my profile, please feel free to send me a message and ask me anything you like. I’m in Northern Utah Ogden area.

THIS SITE
While this site is mainly for my search for my Eternal companion, it also is a way I can share who I am and how I feel about many topics. I hope if I invited you that you glean something from my experiences or of what I have gathered together on this site.  In life there are many adversities that are imposed upon us and there many we impose on ourselves.  Life is a journey and meant to be enjoyed, learned from and find happiness in those dreams and desires we have.  I believe we are all given talents from the Lord I hope I use mine well to inspire and make those around me smile.

ANIMALS AND CREEPY CRAWLIES
I like animals and most bugs don’t bother me but mosquito’s love to bite me, I even take spiders outside ( SRP spider relocation program ) UNLESS they dart or resemble black widows or are creepy looking…. then lets just say their “relocation program” involves abrupt stops and flushes.

DANCING
I would like to learn to ball room dance someday and find a partner to do so, and might use it nightly as a way of ending the day with my sweetie pie ho knows.

HUMOR
Humor is my tool my KungFu Hiyah!! KAI-FU CHOP! get it Kai-Fu  OKAY fine!!!!  moving on!! 🙂

BOOKS
I like reading certain kinds of books you can learn something from. I prefer Running verses cycling BUT thinking about getting a bike.

MUSIC
Music has eluded me for many years so I’m just now spreading those wings again and finding a lot of great stuff that is defining me.

DATING ( When I can afford it and have the time )
I prefer smart girls verses well… 🙂 Something about a smart woman that’s intoxicating. ( FYI smart girls yeah!!! I can’t write well why do you think I want a smart girl. 🙂

LOCATION
Your location does not matter to me. Nowadays the planets pretty small. BUT I would love to have someone around I can get to meet in person. But,  will make every attempt  to make whatever distance work.

LIKES
I like everything, tolerate most anything with in reason. I’m kinda a boy scout, a nerd or perhaps just plan boring, I might be a little introvert at times, then very extrovert at others I’m not sure which one more.  I never have really drank, smoked or did drugs sorry can’t relate there. FIRST TO ADMIT THAT I’M FAR FROM PERFECT.

FACT
Its NOT that I am so much on a quest to find ” HER ” that its my main focus in life HOWEVER IT VERY VERY IMPORTANT TO ME SO, I have created a summary of who I am, where I’ve been, what my belief system or compass i will use to move forward and find Her.

FUN VIDEOS
these are all in good fun and have no real talent behind any of them, just being a goof ball and working on being more fearless to put it all out there.

HOPING
I’m hoping that I could find a friend that would feel the same way I do. Tired of all the stresses in relationships and wishing, Finding a great connection with someone only to find they are not ready to start building something. I’m dreaming for someone I can count on, have things in common with and want to live the life we are given to its fullest while enjoying what we can. I’m talking about a team effort where we push each other to our best as individuals and a family.

CONNECTION IS EVERYTHING FOR ME! BEYOND ANYTHING I VALUE THIS MOST!
Recently in fact I realized how much ” CONNECTION ” means TO ME! and should be of the most importance and thus this is what I seek. I do ask for honesty as this is what and I will always give you the same.  I hope we can be honest  when we don’t feel it one or both… and not take offense.  ANOTHER lesson I just learned is the best way to be.

CHILDREN
I have children love them all dearly and have three grandchildren all. Most of which live far away but they are a part of my thoughts and life.  Since they do not live close by realistically  I do not see them ever living in my home. I’m a package deal which is to be expected with a guy my age. And if you happen to find one my age that has none… he’s still living with his mommy or for some other reason not hitched yet or had some unfortunate accident involving a pencil. Errrr I think that’s from a movie. OR he could just be waiting for you and be the best match ever for you!

I hope in your travels if you come across my profile you find something interesting. I am 45 so give me a break. One thing to note is I’m pretty much alone where I’m at in this life and i just had one of my daughters move in with me which is a blessing and I’m enjoying her company, laughter and even her girl dramas.

TAKEN THE TIME
I’ve taken the time to tweak and purge myself of anything that might make me ” set in my ways ” I’m totally ready to mesh with someone that is right for me and I her.  Also I’m looking for someone who is in that stage where they are over all the party scene, care for their kids first and want to share a life with out all the stresses we most likely have had in our lives already.

NO GREATER CAUSE
Is there no greater cause in this mortal life than to give oneself to another completely, and passionately to fiercely commit to the other to believe in them, to trust them and support their dreams and goals as your own even to love them for who they are including their imperfections and ways that make them unique, talented, beautiful and perfectly yoked to yourself. For the reason I reach out and risk my heart, and place it out there hoping to find her someday.  KLF